There is no forgiving poor conversationalists. At least a person should have the ability to realise when he/she are blabbering out of control and talking load of bollocks. You often find people who, at first sight, intrigue and hypnotize you with their charm or good looks, but upon probing deeper into them you’ll soon discover that there is nothing more to them than a pretty face!
I met one such a girl whose conversation skills, contrary to her spellbinding beauty, were minimal. She was rather garrulous and I dreaded her phone calls and trying to be as polite as I can constantly made up excuses to avoid her. Our conversations, if I can call them that, were monotonous, or at least that’s how I felt, though she would hang up the phone every time feeling like she had the best conversation in her life. And why shouldn’t she feel so, having been talking hours on end by her self about her problems, friends (male and female) to which I resort to with the usual “hmm”, “yeah”, “is it?”, “I see” remarks, plainly making it clear that I am not interested in what her friends were up to the last weekend or how she feels about them and somehow maybe get through to her head and slap her back to reality and remind her how boring she is.
I wish there was a way of making her aware of her actions without wounding her vanity, since she comes across as a tad unsure of herself, and coming across as a bigot!